1.
Are you both
completely committed to building a strong, loving union?
2.
How often do
you disagree or argue?
3.
How often do
you have positive interactions (remember, positive interactions should
outnumber negative interactions 4-20 to 1)?
4.
Do you have
an experienced couple mentoring you and your spouse?
5.
Are you open
and willing to accept influence from your spouse?
6.
In what
specific ways have you accepted influence?
7.
Are you
showing positive character toward your spouse?
8.
Are you
showing any negative character traits toward your spouse?
If so, how can you work to limit that?
Material taken from the American
Association of Christian Counselors.