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The
researcher
undertook this study to assess how the experiences of elders in
James McCann
James
McCann,[1] an
eighty-two year-old gentleman, serves the Lincoln Church of Christ as
an elder,
a position he has held for the past four years.
The
Experience as an Inactive Christian
McCann
was
baptized
at the age of twelve because of his mother’s influence, yet he
became
inactive while serving in the military.
When the participant mentioned he did not like the restoration
process
at times, the researcher asked specifically what he disliked about the
process;
he replied:
Well I just resented it
sometimes—the elder chewing me
out. This one elder I’m talking about could get a pretty rough at
times. He’d
get on me, you know. And I just resented
it to a certain extent . . . . He just chewed me out. He told me how I
needed
to straighten out and live right.
Because he did not like
the way the
elder spoke to him while he was inactive, McCann attempts to work with
inactive
Christians in a totally different manner.
He told about the most recent encounter he had had with an
inactive
member.
I was talking to one of
them yesterday. I didn’t chew her out, but
I said, “We need
to see you at church.” I talked to her
like that. She hadn’t been coming—oh,
once in a while. But I go about
something like that in a round about way, like I say, I said, “We need
to see
you at church.” I don’t say, “You ought
not be doing what you’re doing.” They
know what I mean.
McCann described why he
“didn’t chew
her out.”
Well like I said, I
don’t believe getting them and
chewing them out like that elder did me.
I just try to be persuasive with them and try to do it in a nice
way.
Like I said, that one elder really chewed me out one side and down the
other. I don’t, because I resented it to
a certain extent, but I knew he was right.
Because
McCann
had such a negative
experience with an elder, the participant seeks to work with inactive
members
in a manner that does not cause them to have a negative experience.
Becoming an Elder
Although
he had a negative experience with an elder, McCann became an elder at
the
urging of the congregation he now serves.
When the participant was serving as the congregation’s minister,
the
church realized they needed more elders.
They had elders, but one
had a stroke. They realized they needed
more. There weren’t any elders. I had never thought much about it. They asked me if I would.
And, I was preaching there at the time. Somebody
said,
“What if we want to get a new
preacher?” I said, “Well, anytime
there’s going to be confusion over me being a preacher or elder either
one”—I
told them I’d be the first one to resign—and pick somebody else, ‘cause
I
really hate division in the church. I
hate it. I hate it with a passion.
Lack of Growth
McCann
hates
division
with a passion, but he also laments the lack of growth the
We’ve got a full-time
preacher. But, we haven’t grown
numerically—financially
side of it we’ve grown—we’re supporting a preacher alright. But, I’d rather see it the other way and grow
numerically, and we’re not.
Not
only has the
It’s getting bad right
now. Right now it’s getting bad. People are not attending like they
should. Like I said, there were only
fifty there yesterday morning, and I’d say a year or two ago, we’d had
seventy. We’re losing our young
people. We’re losing them.
When
asked why the church was losing so many young people, McCann answered:
Sometimes they say, “I
don’t like what you’re doing
down here.” Sometimes it’s the
attraction of the world. Sometimes
they’re just too lazy. Sometimes they’d
rather go fishing or whatever—They don’t put enough emphasis on
attending
worship, not forsaking the assembly.
Interestingly, McCann said
that the
attraction of the world caused him to become unfaithful during his
military
service. For McCann, the attraction of
the world can prove more powerful than the attraction of the church and
her
Lord.
Walter
Runyan
Walter
Runyan is seventy-four and serves as an elder for the Coal River Church
of
Christ in
Early Recollections of
Elders
Runyan
remembers the elders from his youth quite fondly, for “they were very
concerned
about the church, they worked hard to keep things in line and things
going
well.” In their concern for the church,
those elders were willing to exercise corrective discipline.
There were times when
they actually withdrew
fellowship—actually I can only think of one time when there was—I was
either in
school or in the military when it happened so uh…I don’t remember the
details
of it, but I think adultery was involved, and they withdrew, you know,
in a
public way.
The participant recalls
that the
entire congregation, not only the elders, demonstrated concern when a
member
fell away: “There were obviously members who were very concerned and
would call
them or send them letters or cards or whatever.”
Defining Inactive Members
In
his current role as an elder at the Coal River Church of Christ, Runyan
finds
the definition of “active member” quite difficult.
When asked to describe the activity of the
“typical” member, the participant replied:
That’s a difficult
question. LAUGHTER.
Uh, because basically you know what you see.
We have extremely good attendance on Sunday
night and Wednesday night. There have
been occasions recently where we had more on Sunday night than we had
on Sunday
morning and times when we had more on Wednesday night than we had on
Sunday. So far, as you can judge their
involvement by
their attendance—of course, I know you can’t always judge people’s
involvement
by that, because I know there are a lot of things that go on outside
the
assembly that we’re not always aware of.
We have women who, you know, go every week just about to visit
shut-ins
and to help clean house for somebody that’s sick, take food to ‘em, you
know,
so there are a lot of women who are really kinda quiet, but they go do
these
things.
Concern for Inactive
Members
While
he may have
difficulty describing the typical member’s activity, Runyan has great
concern
for those growing lax in their worship attendance.
In talking with the other two elders at
We have three elders,
and we each have a list of
names, and if somebody doesn’t attend in, I mean it’s really up to the
elder,
but we say like try to make it a week. If
somebody misses all three services in the week, then we put forth some
kinda
effort to contact them – whether it be phone, card, visit, and see if
we can,
you know, generate interest. We, you
know, we have our business meetings every month and one of the other
elders,
Walter Runyan, came up with this, we had been kinda in a way doing it,
but we
didn’t have any set procedure. I mean we
knew members who were not coming and we missed ‘em, and we would always
tell
them whenever we’d see ‘em, “We miss ya, we’re glad you’re here. Is everything okay?” But,
that
was about the extent of it, and we
finally decided that, you know, we have some problems, and if we don’t
address
them, we’re losing souls. So, how can we
address it and take a more active part in, you know, giving those
people more
attention than what they’re getting just when they show up or, you
know, we
would call some, and we would either call them or make sure they were
called or
got cards, but we just didn’t do it efficiently, you know, we didn’t
have
anyway of saying, “Well, we know for sure this person was not here
these
times. But now we keep a list.
The researcher wanted to
understand
Runyan’s rationale for beginning such a system, and he asked the
participant,
“I understand from talking to the other two elders that you developed a
system
to kinda keep track of who was coming and make sure members weren’t
becoming
inactive. What made you decide to do
that?” The subject replied:
Well, there was some
folks that we knew were not
showing up very often. So, we wanted
some type of plan where the elders would, uh, well, I don’t know how
much they
told ya, but, you know, we divided the congregation into three groups
and each
one of us is responsible for a third of the congregation.
Uh, we felt rather than the whole group
trying to be responsible for everybody that it was simpler for one man
to kinda
watch out for these others and then you can.
Runyan decided such a
program was
needed, because “We were concerned about the people who weren’t
attending.”
Runyan’s
concern for those not attending also caused him to desire to know
whether
members did not attend because of spiritual problems or whether they
were
absent from the assembly for some other reason.
We sent out a letter a
year or so ago encouraging our
members to let the elders know when they were going to be out of town. Now, we emphasized we’re not trying to be
nosy, we don’t care particularly where you’re going, but we would like
to know
that you are planning to be out-of-town or that you’re sick. We like for them to call us when they’re
sick. ‘Cause it’s easier for one person
to be responsible for his action than for me to be responsible for
about seventy
people. So, we’ve encouraged them to
call us when they’re going to be away, and we have a lot of people who
did that
and some of them are a little drifting away from that plan, but you
know, you
just have to remind them every now and then that we’d like for you to
do
this. But most of them, we know where
they are.
Thus, the participant
attempts to
keep a solid pulse on the congregation he serves so that he can deal
with
spiritual problems as they arise.
Understanding Why People
Become
Inactive
Although
he seeks to deal with spiritual problems promptly, Runyan fails to
grasp why
spiritual problems occur. When asked why
individuals became inactive, he said:
They somehow have lost
their zeal. We’ve had people that became
Christians, and
they were here for every service and then, I don’t know, in some cases,
we have
people who drive for pretty good distances, in some cases, and that may
be a
discouragement to some of them. Uh, I
think people just loose their zeal for some reason.
While the participant saw
a loss of
zeal as the reason of inactivity, he could not identify the root cause
of
losing zeal.
Prompt Action
He
may not understand the loss of zeal, but Runyan, like the research from
the
literature review, recognized he needed to act promptly when members
began to
fall away. When asked what he had
learned from his experience, the participant responded:
Probably the sooner you
get them back the better
chance you have of restoring them. The
longer you wait the less likelihood they are, well, you know, a lot of
them
will come back when they get old, they realize finally, and the tragic
thing
about it is too many times their children have already gone away, then
they
come back, they don’t realize the influence that they have lost with
their
children by staying away.
The participant recognized
his
pastoral duties toward inactive Christians, and he sought to fulfill
those
responsibilities by keeping watch over the
Allen
Snodgrass
Allen
Snodgrass, a fifty-one year-old participant, has served as an elder at
the
Midway Church of Christ in Belle,
Recollections of Earlier
Elders
Snodgrass
appreciated the elders he witnessed in his formative years, but he has
come to
have grave doubts about their ability to serve.
He said of his earlier elders:
They were good men.
They were good men. They were of
good character. I don’t think they had a
lot of Bible knowledge. I think that they
were just good ole boys that—they believed in God.
As far as having technical Bible knowledge,
they didn’t have that. They were a
product of what they were taught. Jesus
said when the student is fully trained he will become like the
teacher—that’s
what they were, they were products of their teaching, so if their
teaching was
limited, then their understanding was limited.
In the elders’ limited
understanding,
they did little to retain members of the congregation.
When asked what they did to retain members,
Snodgrass quickly replied that the church “had a preacher.”
The
elders’ limited understanding caused them to do little more than hire a
preacher. for Snodgrass reported that only occasionally would they
visit
inactive members.
Sometimes they’d go see
‘em—sometimes. Sometimes they wouldn’t. I think it depended on the situation. I think that if it was just someone who just
lost interest, I don’t think they did much, but if it was a sin, they’d
go see
‘em, because they didn’t want that associated with them.
You see what I’m saying? They
didn’t want—people knew that they were a
member of that church and they didn’t want that associated with—because
their
whole concept was that it would bring reproach on the church, so I
think they
would go see ‘em. I don’t know. I don’t remember a lot of people that
were
ever disfellowshiped or withdrew from or whatever terminology, you know
what
I’m talking about.
Those elders, in
Snodgrass’
recollection, cared more about the church’s perception than about souls
which
might wander from the truth.
Causes for Inactivity
Snodgrass
believes people become inactive, then and now because of a misplaced
emphasis
upon the church instead of her Lord.
I think our emphasis was
the wrong thing. That our emphasis is, has
been, you know,
faithful to the church as opposed to being faithful to God. I think the church became, in my lifetime, I
think the church was the central focus rather than Jesus being the
central
focus, and the faithfulness was attributed to the church as opposed to
faithfulness being attributed to Jesus in the church.
I think that has been one real reason, from
my perspective, that we didn’t go after.
We didn’t. We weren’t
militant. People saw the church as
people and they saw their inconsistencies as opposed to them seeing
their
faithfulness to God, they didn’t care if their faithfulness was to this
group
of inconsistent people and the thing about hypocrites, you know, I
don’t want
to be a part of people who are hypocritical and they say one thing
while
they’re at church and one thing while they’re out here and one way that
you
really remedy that is that you help the church as a group to know that
we’re
sinners saved by the grace of God, that we’re not perfect people. We are—we’re weak and we’re all struggling
and if people—the perception is that these folks here in the church
think they
have it together and people who are actually being honest know they
don’t have
it together and they say, “I can’t fit
in to that.” And they don’t want to be a
part of that, so in getting them back into the church rather than
seeing their
focus toward God they saw their focus as not being able to be a part of
this
group who thinks that they’re, they’ve got it all together when I know
that I
don’t. And that was one of the reasons
that I think we have lost a lot of people from the church fellowship. They think that what the church is is a bunch
of saints coming together to adjust their halos on Sunday morning. Rather than being a hospital for sinners that
come together and say, “I’m struggling with this” without somebody
saying,
“Well, I can’t believe you’re struggling with that.
I don’t struggle with that”—lying through
their teeth. It’s all been about the
Snodgrass believes, then,
the answer
to inactivity lies in a change of emphasis, emphasizing the church’s
Lord,
rather than the Lord’s church.
Role of an Elder
Snodgrass
sees his role in changing the emphasis among Christians in terms of a
pastoral
role rather than an administrative one.
Being a shepherd is more
the deal, I think. And I tell you
something else I started
doing, when I was in school, Philip Keller wrote some books about the
23rd
Psalm and the good shepherd. A
Shepherd—that’s what it was—A Shepherd Looks at the
23rd Psalm. And I’ll never forget in
the 23rd Psalm about
the part “he restoreth my soul.” What
restoring was for a shepherd was if you had a sheep that went out away
from the
fold, you’d go get him and bring him back.
And if he kept wandering off what he would do—he would get that
sheep
and he’d take his foreleg in his hand and he’d take his staff and break
his
leg. And he’d bind it up and he’d have
to carry it with him everywhere the flock went.
And then whenever the leg healed the sheep never left the flock
again. “He restoreth my soul.” So, that is discipline, to restore the sheep
back to the fold. And that is something
that I have been trying—well, let me just tell you this. To give you
the
idea—when I was in
Snodgrass sees the lack of
discipline
among churches of Christ as a major obstacle in appropriately
shepherding the
local church. He told of some members at
Midway who had caused a multitude of problems, and he added, “I think
one of
the reasons that that has been a problem is because we are not involved
in
church discipline.”
Charles
Davis
Charles
Davis at eighty-seven has served the Midway Church of Christ for well
over
thirty years as an elder. His father
became
a member of the churches of Christ while living in
Early
Recollections of Church Work
Because
When I was growing up we
never went to church very
much, because the only time we had a church was when we have a meeting
in a
schoolhouse somewhere. And sometimes we
would meet a little while but then there wasn’t very many.
It would
kinda quit. And then there would
be some preacher come through and we’d have another meeting. We had a lot of people like that.
They didn’t live here and they would come and
hold meetings. Then they would move on.
Sometimes we would quit meeting. Somebody else would come along
and start
it up again.
In 1929,
church, the building where
the Midway
church meets today.
When they first built
the church building down
there—nineteen twenty-nine is when they built the building, and we had
great
attendance and then the Depression come along and there were a lot of
people
who worked in the oil fields here that lost their jobs and went to
Michigan and of course for a while it
really hurt because
you know, so many went and didn’t come back.
Went up there and got jobs and stayed that were going to church
there. I don’t remember how many
families—there was several of course.
Working with Inactive
Members
Joseph
Craig
Joseph
Craig, a fifty-five year old supervisor at Verizon, serves as an elder
at the
Coal River Church of Christ. He was
baptized at the congregation in 1995 on account of his wife’s influence. He regularly attended another congregation of
the churches of Christ from the age of five, but he delayed his baptism
until
his wife decided to obey the Gospel. She
was baptized at the
Becoming an Elder
Two
years
following his baptism, the elders of the congregation approached Craig
about
serving as the deacon in charge of benevolence.
He accepted that responsibility and became an elder three years
later. When approached by the elders
concerning becoming an elder himself, Craig was quite reluctant.
One of the main reasons
I had never thought about it
[becoming an elder] was because of what I considered maturity. And, I mean, I had been at the congregation
for well, five maybe six—five years probably—five years we’ll say. And that’s how long I had been a
Christian. And, I wasn’t real sure about
the maturity part, but after we studied and considered and, you know,
we
decided that well, you know, I had, in a sense, grown up in the church
and had
been around and knew what was going on and so they decided that I was—I
would
meet the qualifications to be an elder, so I didn’t know of any other
reason
not to.
Once he overcame his
concerns about
maturity, Craig threw himself into his work as an elder at the
Working with Inactive
Members
Part
of throwing himself into his work as an elder includes Craig’s regular
calls to
members moving toward inactivity. He
recounted for the researcher efforts he has taken to work with one
inactive
member.
I’ve got one person that
I call and she says, “Well,
I’ve been in
The participant seeks to
wait no more
than two weeks after someone misses a service to contact that member:
“I try to
do it every week if they’ve been gone for a week, but no more than two
weeks.”
Defining Inactive Members
Although
Craig seeks to work with inactive Christians on a regular basis, he has
difficulty defining exactly what constitutes an inactive member. The researcher asked how many inactive
members the Midway congregation had, and the participant replied, “How
many
inactive members? Okay, you’ve got to a
good question, because how do you define ‘inactive’?”
Because he sought to understand Craig’s own
definition, the candidate promised to provide a definition for the
participant
only after he had answered the question on his own, and the definition
he
provided quite closely parallels the definition used throughout this
study.
One definition would be
a person has been a member and
you haven’t seen ‘em for years. Another
person that I would consider inactive is a person who shows up once a
month. Now, there may be another term
for that person, but to me if you only show up once a month you’re
almost
inactive—so, slack.
Use of Church Discipline
Craig
has difficulty with the way the Coal River Church of Christ handles
inactive
members. He appreciates the efforts the
elders have made in the past year in regularly calling those who have
become or
are on the verge of becoming inactive, but he wishes he and his fellow
elders
would take a more firm stand.
There are certain cases
that, you know, defies all
logic as to why you wouldn’t withdraw. I
do, really, in my mind I fell like that if a person reaches a stage
where they
show no interest and you cannot get ‘em to, you know, and in a lost of
cases
they will just flat out tell you, “I’m not coming, and I don’t care
anymore.” Or you’ll have somebody tell
you, “I’m gonna be there” and not show up.
And I actually think we are doing ourselves a disservice by not
gettin’
more serious, because I think that you’ve lost ‘em, you’ve lost this
person if
they don’t show up and if you can through love show ‘em that they need
to be
coming, they need to take it serious and they will return and you’ve
accomplished a great task. And
everybody’s afraid that you’re going to turn them away.
Well, you’re not going to turn them away any
worse that what they already are. So, I
kinda look at it like only good can happen from it.
Plus, if you have people who are still
considered to be Christians by the congregation but don’t show up, what
kind of
example are you showing to your younger Christians or to people who are
non-Christians. People who are
non-Christians can come to church and they might come every week, but
why become
a Christian if this person’s a Christian and they never come. I mean, you’ve got negative examples and
negative influence. But, I guess the
problem that I see is and well the greatest fear would if they just
don’t
respond, but you really haven’t heard anything.
Now the person knows they’re withdrawn from, now it may sink in
one of
these days, and they may get serious and come back.
If they don’t get serious and don’t come back
then, we . . . . It’s not like that the congregation has doomed them,
‘cause
they’ve done it to themselves. So, I
don’t . . . I really feel like it’s something that either we need to
take it
more serious. It, it’s just hard to do.
Craig firmly believes that
if the
Pastoral Responsibility
Craig’s
concern for inactive Christians demonstrated by either calling them or
wishing
the church would do more stems from how he views his pastoral
responsibilities.
I think an elder should
be very concerned about
inactive Christians. I think that’s what
of the major roles of an elder is, to be concerned about inactive
Christians,
but I also think that it’s a job of every Christian to do whatever they
can,
but I think that if that’s part of the flock then, you know, then
you’ve got
responsibility to do the best that you can, whether it be preaching to
them,
calling them, sending them cards, not forgetting them and letting them
know
that they’re not forgotten. I mean I think
people—the longer they get away with something like that without any
contact,
the more apt they are to stay that way, but I think that if they know
that
there is, there are people concerned about them, and that if you can
let them
know that their soul is in jeopardy, that God does care, and if you
ever
believed, and if you ever was a Christian truly and believed in God and
the
destination of your soul and eternity, then sooner or later that
thought’s
going to come back, unless something really weird goes on in your mind,
and I
think that we have to do the best we can, and I think it is an elder’s
responsibility.
Craig’s concern means he
has great
dedication in working with inactive Christians.
In fact, he is so dedicated he wishes he had more time to devote
to
working with wayward members: “I’d like to, the only thing I’d like to
do,
personally, is just to be able to do more of it. Um,
I
mean, I’d like to be able to take, if I
had every spare moment, but it’s a problem of finding spare moments,
or, you
know, how do you allocate your time?
Peter Faulkner
Recollections of
Earlier Elders
Peter
Faulkner is
currently sixty-one and has been an elder at the Coal River Church of
Christ
for fifteen years. The participant has
quite fond memories of the elders serving his home congregation.
They were good men.
Good men, very good men, and good teachers, good teachers of the
Bible,
good examples to the community, they would help in any way they
possibly could
to help ya. One of our elders, though,
however, his wife had crippling arthritis, and I can remember so
vividly he
would actually on Sunday mornings and Sunday evenings, on Sunday
mornings he
would get her up and he would comb her hair, he’d fix her breakfast,
‘cause she
couldn’t do any—her hands were so crooked and she was in a wheelchair
all the
time, but he would actually get her up and get her ready and have her
hair so
pretty and get her ready to come to church.
The leaders’ goodness and
willingness
to help became evident when Faulkner’s father began becoming inactive.
My dad one time, he
kinda got disappointed, I guess,
with the way things might have been going or may not have even been
that, but
he was working on his house, building his house and he wasn’t going to
church
as regularly as he should have and one of the elders come and talk to
him and
that made a big difference in my dad.
While
Faulkner was not present when
the elder spoke with his father, he remembers the impact the
conversation had
on both his parents. “I do remember them
coming and talking to Mom and Dad. I
remember them talking, but that was really encouraging to them. That helped them to get going back regularly
to church.”
Concern for Inactive
Members
Probably
because that elder showed such concern to his parents when Faulkner was
young,
the participant cares deeply when he sees parents of young children
move toward
inactivity: “We try to encourage them, especially those with families
that
their family needs to be in the church, because they know what’s
coming, they
understand what’s coming. We’ve tried to
tell them that.” Yet, Faulkner
does
not concern himself with only those inactive Christians who have young
children, but he cares deeply about all inactive members of the
Kenneth
Welch
Kenneth
Welch, a fifty-seven year-old Christian, has served the MacCorkle
Avenue Church
of Christ as an elder for the past ten years.
He went to the
Recalling Inactive
Christians
Welch
had difficulty recalling specific examples of individuals’ leaving the
church
in his youth, yet in the example he did recall, Welch knew the elders
made
efforts to win back the individual.
I don’t recall too many
examples, you know, during my
growing up period and even after, say college, college years and so
forth,
there were some. And I can remember the
elders’ being concerned about it – I think they were concerned about it
whenever it happened, and the last—that’s when I went away to college,
and I
know at that point, I can remember in particular a man right down the
hill here
who was a very fine man I thought, someone I really looked up to, was
unfaith—became unfaithful during that time, and I know the elders did
make
efforts to try to talk with him and try get him to come back to church. So, I know they had an interest, you know, to
some degree at least, in folks who strayed away.
Just as the participant
had
difficulty recalling experiences from his youth where individuals fell
away
from the church, he also had difficulty identifying inactive members at
the
MacCorkle Road Church of Christ. When
the researcher asked Welch how many members at MacCorkle Road he would
classify
as inactive, he named two individuals, asked the other elder at
MacCorkle Road
who was present, and said, “Not very many, frankly.”
Welch’s
difficulty in identifying inactive members could result from a couple
of
factors. His inability to name inactive
Christians could result from inattention, perhaps the same reason he
could not
recall many examples of inactivity from his early youth and college
years. That explanation, however, does not
best fit
the other data gathered from Mr. Welch.
As the interview progressed, the participant named two other
individuals
who had left active service at the
Make up of the MacCorkle Avenue
Church of Christ
Welch’s
difficulty in naming many inactive Christians more likely results from
the
nature of the
We’re not a real active
congregation as far as a lot
of activity going on all the time for people to be involved in. We, you know, we have a Bible school, we try
to do, have Gospel Meetings, we, from time to time, set up other
activities and
things that we try to get people involved with.
We don’t really have a good nucleus of people to depend upon to
do
things.
Not only does the
congregation not
have a large level of activity, but Welch also reported that the
congregation
has suffered from a downturn in the industrial chemical industry, a
major
employer in
Approaching Inactive
Christians
Even
though Welch does not have many inactive Christians in the congregation
he
serves, he does not mind at all to approach them. When
asked
what fears he had in working with
inactive Christians, the subject said:
I’m not afraid to
approach them. Sometimes you feel like
they don’t want you
to. More than anything else, that’s
probably the greatest thing. In fact,
you know sometimes, particularly if you’ve talked the same person two
or three
or four times, you get the feeling that they don’t really want me to
talk to
them. I mean, I’m not afraid, I don’t
think either one of us [Welch and his fellow elder] is afraid.
Welch does not even fear
the
possibility of legal action. When the
researcher asked the
participant about lawsuits, he replied:
I don’t think so.
We, I recall one young lady that we talked to Lois who was
coming to
church, kinda coming, supposed to be a member and was living with a man
and
wanting us to help her, and we both went to her and said, “You know, we
can’t
help you in your current situation.
You’re not faithful to God. You’re
living in sin.” She didn’t like it very
well, but I don’t think either one of us hesitated to do it. In fact, she didn’t come back anymore, but .
. . .
Welch, then, will work
with any
inactive Christian he encounters.
Becoming an Elder
Well, over at MacCorkle
Road the church was pretty big
back when I became an elder—even bigger before I did, because shortly
after the
Korean War and everything, you know, there was lots of activity around
the
Valley, a lot of people moving in and working at the plants and a lot
of stuff
like that. And, they didn’t have any
elders when I moved there, when we moved there in ’56 and we got some
men that
become very mature and sorta grew up in the position, I guess, where
people thought
we were qualified and we—somebody proposed that we ought to have elders
and
some of the men started looking around and said, “Well, here’s four
that we
think maybe can be elders today,” so we did.
LAUGHTER. We went through a
process, announcing it to the church, and considering elders and some
interviews—there, there were some people who wanted to talk with us
about,
various ones of us about questions that they had and stuff like that. And it wasn’t any big problem that I knew of
anyway. Somebody asked me one time, “Did
anybody get mad and leave when you appointed elders?”
I said, “No.
Why? Are they supposed to?” LAUGHTER.
While the other three
elders
appointed at the same time have either died or moved elsewhere, Lane
continues
to serve the church faithfully.
Activity in the
Because
he serves the church faithfully, Lane lamented the inactivity he
witnesses at
How active is the
typical member? Well, if a good number of
them could get out
of bed or out of the nursing homes, they might be pretty active. LAUGHTER.
I don’t know. We’ve—I would like
to see them a lot more active. We do
have a lot of old people that just aren’t physically up to it, and, in
this day
and time, the young people, both the husband and wife works, almost
exclusively, what younger couples we’ve got, and they are limited with
time and
I don’t like those kinds of situations, but again, with them being
almost forced
into working now with the economy the way it is, I don’t know what we
can do
about it. I would like to see a lot more
active people, but our people are basically older and they just can’t
participate in a lot of things that I would like to see going on,
‘cause they
can’t get out at night and stuff like that and can’t do a lot of
walking, a lot
of them, so, and the younger people are bogged down with working,
working
overtime and one thing or another, so in my opinion, they’re not as
active as I
would like to see them, yet I think there are reasons for that, some
things
that are holding them back some. And
again, we’ve got some that pretty, a few
that are pretty undependable sometimes with attendance and stuff like
that is
concerned.
When the researcher asked
Lane his
opinion of inactive Christians, the elder returned to the theme of
activity.
Well, when I hear the
phrase, “inactive Christian,” I
think of one who’s drifted away and just not doing anything. However, I think there are other terms for
people
that go off and seek a bunch of entertainment and stuff like that, I
don’t know
what the correct term for them is. To
me, an inactive Christian is somebody whose just become do-less and not
really
pursuing anything religiously. Those
other people are active, but they’ve been drawn into things they
shouldn’t be
drawn into.
Lane, therefore, sees
Christianity in
terms of activity. “Inactive Christians”
for Lane represent those who are truly inactive, doing nothing
religiously, but
those who are attracted to error are active, just actively doing what
is
wrong. This study would include both
groups under the definition of “inactive Christian.”
Obstacles Posed by
Entertainment
Not
only does Lane see those attracted to religious entertainment as
actively doing
wrong, but he believes the lure of such entertainment represents a
major
obstacle as the church seeks to keep her members, for he returned to
that theme
when asked why he believes individuals leave the church.
I think there are a lot
of reasons, depends on the
individuals. Some of the reasons are
that, in my opinion, in the times in which we live, the church is just
not
“exciting” enough for them. They’re
looking for a lot of exciting things, a lot of mysticism and
entertainment. They want to be religious,
but they don’t want to—they just want to be religious enough that their
next
door neighbors recognize them as being religious, doesn’t make any
difference
where they go to church, just so they go, they’re considered religious
by their
peers, and I think there is just a host of reasons why people are like
that. And the pressure that the things
they see churches, even churches of Christ, so-called churches of
Christ
anyway, doing nowadays, big exciting things that denominations do that
capture
the imagination and they just don’t see that happening in the church
and after
all, you know, I think, to me, singing, praying, teaching, giving, and
communing are exciting aspects of New Testament Christianity. But, I don’t think a lot of people see it
that way. [I] mean, what can you do with
those things? It captures the
imagination and gets their blood all running fast and stuff like that. To me, doing those things are scripturally
correct and proper are exciting and interesting and they hold my
attention and
my focus, but a lot of people are not like that in my opinion.
The participant sees
himself as
powerless to stem the tide away from entertainment, but he firmly
believes such
draws people from truth to error.
Working with Inactive
Members
Lane,
like Kenneth Welch, the other elder at
I don’t really recall.
We don’t really have right now, in our community, people who are
not
coming, who have just completely quit coming.
We have some that don’t—I think miss more than they should with
other
things—but let’s say somebody whose not coming or the way I define an
inactive
member and talk to them, it’s been a pretty good while.
The other data gathered
from Lane
support his statement that he has not visited with inactive members
recently
simply because the
You know, I guess I feel
about the same way about the
responsibility toward all members, but there’s a little bit of special
responsibility to try to steer those who have erred from the way, I
guess, back
to where they belong. I think we’re all
concerned about people who drift away like that. They
need
to be somehow or other approached
so that they can be persuaded to get back in the service.
There’s certainly an obligation there to do
that.
Also
supporting the researcher’s assertion that Lane is more than willing to
work
with inactive Christians is Lane’s statement that he does not fear
legal action
in working with inactive members.
I’m not much afraid of a
lawsuit—just talking to
somebody that’s unfaithful. They know
they’re unfaithful, most of them, in the first place, and they know why
you’re
talking to them. I’m not much afraid of
that. Now if it came to the point where
we’d be involved in some withdraw procedures, I wouldn’t say don’t do
what you
have to do scripturally, but I would say you need to proceed very
cautiously
and slowly and not do anything irrational where they could come back to
you and
come up with a lawsuit. You know, if,
well, you know how the lawyers are nowadays, they’ll sue you for
anything, but
you would have to be very cautious in how you proceeded with that, but
just go
to somebody that’s just used to come to church and all of a sudden got
mad or
whatever reason they drift away, I’m not much afraid of a lawsuit in a
case
like that.
The participant, more than
likely in
response to Marian Guinn’s lawsuit against the
Owen
Johnson
Becoming a Christian
At
seventy-eight
years of age, Owen Johnson has served the Midway Church of Christ for
forty
years as an elder. Unlike the other
participants in this study, Johnson had no previous connection with the
churches of Christ prior to his marriage; his family regularly attended
Baptist
churches in his formative years. His
marriage to a “girl who was a member” of the churches of Christ brought
Johnson
into contact with the theology of the group, and, for Johnson, “it was
just
black and white” after he began studying the theology prevalent among
churches
of Christ.
Becoming an Elder
Johnson
has served two congregations of the churches of Christ as an elder. The first time he became an elder, the two
elders then serving the congregation approached the participant about
serving.
The one time was down at
the
A few years after becoming
an elder
at the
The
congregation wanted Johnson as an elder, and he began to serve. Although both the
Working with New Converts
In
shepherding the Midway Church of Christ, Johnson would like to
establish a
mentoring program for new converts.
I personally got carried
away with one thing a few
years ago, and I still
think it’s a great way
to do it, but I got out voted somewhere
along the
line. They said it wasn’t scriptural,
but I still like the idea of a brother’s keeper type thing myself. When
we
baptize someone, I would like to assign somebody to them to be their
friend,
their buddy, and if nothing else take them fishing or take them to a
ball game
or something of this nature, and really get to know them and bring them
along
in the church without them realizing they’re being led.
But sorry to say that didn’t get going too
well. I still think it’s the way to go.
While
many
within mainstream churches of
Christ would likely see Johnson’s suggestion as coming dangerously
close to the
International Churches of Christ, Johnson’s desire testifies to his
concern
that new members be incorporated into the congregational fellowship.
Activeness at the
Johnson’s
desire to do something to bring new members “along in the church”
likely stems
from the lack of activity he sees at the Midway congregation and the
desperation he feels over the inertia he witnesses.
The typical member out
of the whole congregation—I
would say we have about ten that are really active, as I would like to
see
them. As I would like to see all of them
be, but you’ve got – you’ve always got some who were going to be active
in this
particular thing the rest of them couldn’t care less.
It’s just something that you can’t inspire in
them you can’t get them to do it, so I don’t know I’d say probably ten
that’s
really active.
For Johnson many members
do not
participate appropriately in the church’s work, and he is at a loss for
what to
do, for “it’s just something that you can’t inspire in” others.
Working with Inactive
Members
While
he cannot inspire activity in others, Johnson seeks to return inactive
members
to active service in the church.
Right now I’m having it
with two—a man and his
wife. They promise and they promise and
they promise, “I’m coming, I’m coming, I’m coming,” but they just don’t
come. So, I’ve spent more time with him
and his wife than any other in trying to convert them, because he had
all the
potential in the world to be really a go getter so far as contacting people that’s not members of the church. He was just a bubbly, enthusiastic type
fella, and he just got a long great with everybody, but I really don’t
know
what his problem is. I’m trying to
get
to the bottom of it, but I can’t grasp it yet.
But, they offer you excuses and I get to the point that [I say],
“You
were just making them lie to you.” So,
all you can do it is just pray for them in cases like that, and just
hope that
they do turn. But when they left the
church that cost us four additional members and two children at the
same time,
because their children left and he was
real active in the church, and I just don’t know how you cope
with
something like that. You try every way
you can to reach them, but—be friends with them and during that flood .
. .
this boy worked with me day and night.
We’d be hauling appliances and taking them to people’s homes and
setting
them up, and he was just—I didn’t have to say a word.
I mean he jumped right in there and was
really—he had all the potential of being a great servant of Christ. But, I think it’s her. I
don’t
think it’s him, but I dunno how to—she’s
quite a bit older than he is. I’m about
ready to throw up my hands and turn it over to somebody else. But I thought I could do it better than them,
because we had worked together so much.
The couple with whom
Johnson is
currently working provides numerous excuses as to why they cannot
regularly
attend the assembly, but they often tell the participant that they
cannot
attend because they overslept. The
subject has become somewhat inventive in encouraging the couple to
attend: “And
I’ve tried to get to the telephone and make phone calls and hang up
before they
answered. I know that they didn’t
oversleep.”
Causes for Inactivity
While
Johnson uses modern technology to assist him in working with inactive
Christians, he believes modern technology has also made remaining a
faithful
Christian more difficult. When asked why
he believed so many fell away from Christianity, the participant said,
“TVs,
newspapers, radios, things of that nature.
They just have more interest in them than they do than in
serving God
and saving their soul.” Modern media
have such a hold on nominal Christians, for they do not “realize really
the
severity of God.” Modern Christians have
been taught about God’s love “altogether and not much about the severe
side of
him.”
Johnson
attempts to bring inactive Christians face to face with God’s severity
by being
direct and to the point: “I used to soft soap it a lot, but now I just
go head
on. I walk in like a bull in a china
shop and say, ‘We want to know what the problem is and what can I do to
help.’ And try to get the bottom of it,
rather than just skirting the issue.”
Use of Church Discipline
Once
Johnson has gotten to “the bottom of it,” he wishes to see the church
withdraw
from individuals who are unfaithful.
I dunno if after you
have talked with them and
somebody else has talked with them if you went to them and had the
backing of
the church to say we’re going to withdraw from you if you’re not back
making your
confession at such and such a time—I just wonder if that would not
cause them
to think more than all the talking and the begging, pleading you could
do. But you have to have the backing of
the
church in order to get that done. But
we’ve got to find some way to get them back, but I don’t know what it
is. I’ve tried and tried and tried. But,
we’re
getting very few of them back.
When the participant was
asked what
he would like to change about the way he had worked with inactive
Christians in
the past, he responded:
I still think that the
secret to getting them back is
having the fear of being withdrawn from the whole congregation is the
one thing
that would help more than anything else.
But it seems that this is something that when you get to thinking about it I’m sure you’ve seen the
church get black eyes from people who left the church and how many
times did
you see the church actually withdraw from them?
It’s just something that the religious world does it, and I
don’t know
why that we can’t do it. It’s a tough
way to go. It’s a tough love when you
get to thinking about it.
Johnson believes such a
program would
greatly help the church. In describing
why withdrawing fellowship would be effective, he spoke about how he
would feel
if he were withdrawn from: “I know myself that I wouldn’t want to be an
outcast
to where friends wouldn’t speak to me or anything else, if I was in
that
position.”
The
candidate
first sought to put the elders’ “experience in context” by asking them
“to tell
as much as possible” about their life history in light of elders and
inactive
Christians.[2] The second part of the
interviews centered
on the concrete details of how these participants have recently dealt
with
inactive Christians.[3] The student
finally asked the subjects to
reflect on the meaning of their experiences.[4] Now
that
the reader has seen each participant
individually, the writer will provide a holistic presentation of the
data.
The
researcher posed several questions to place the elders’ experiences in
context. He sought to understand their
religious upbringing and the relationship they had with elders during
their
formative years. The candidate looked at
how the subjects became elders and when they believed they met the
qualifications to be elders.
Recollections of Earlier
Elders
A
major theme
developed as the candidate explored with the participants their
previous
experiences with elders. The elders
nearly unanimously recalled those elders quite fondly.
One participant said, “I liked the men
themselves. Of course, they were men I
knew, and they were decent people, good people, you know.”
The fondness with which the elders recalled
their earlier counterparts became apparent when the researcher asked
the
participants about what they disliked about the elders in their home
churches. The following comment was
typical: “Not that I can think of. Not
that I can recall, because they always were around to help you and
assist.”
The
more the candidate spoke with the elders, the more he realized they
modeled
themselves after the elderships they witnessed in their youths. In recounting his experience, one elder
commented:
One of our elders,
though, however, his wife had
crippling arthritis, and I can remember so vividly he would actually on
Sunday
mornings and Sunday evenings, on Sunday mornings he would get her up
and he
would comb her hair. He’d fix her
breakfast, ‘cause she couldn’t do any—her hands were so crooked and she
was in
a wheelchair all the time, but he would actually get her up and get her
ready
and have her hair so pretty and get her ready to come to church.
While this elder does not
have a wife
who needs constant attention, he follows the example in caring for the
members
of the congregation he serves. The
researcher
had scheduled an interview for a Tuesday morning, but the elder called
about an
hour before the scheduled interview to say he needed to reschedule so
that he
could mow the lawns of several elderly ladies in the congregation.
Another
participant’s father had a great influence on his life.
He has vivid recollections of catching his
father, himself an elder, in prayer.
I suppose that of all
the people that I have known in
my life in the church, Dad has been the most consistent in his life as
an elder
and as—I mean he has, you know, there’s not many kids that walk in the
living
room and catch their dad down on his knees praying for the church,
praying for
people, praying for the Lord to bless people, you know, and being a
young guy
growing up, you know, I listened at the door and hear him pray for
people and
things that, you know, “Lord bless them and give ‘em peace” and, you
know,
crying his eyes out while he prayed.
The theme of peace
remerged later in
the interview as the respondent discussed working with a lady who had
recently
become inactive. He reports the lady
“was learning and going and coming to my class and feeling just a
little bit of
peace,” but her father constantly discouraged her.
She left the congregation as a result. As
his
father had desired peace for the sheep
entrusted to him, this elder desired the inactive member he referenced
to have
peace.
One
participant in the study reported that he had a negative experience
with an
elder in his younger years. He had
become a member of a congregation but then he joined the military. While in the military, he became inactive and
an elder confronted him about the inactivity.
I resented it sometimes. The elder chewing me out.
This one elder I’m talking about could get
pretty rough at times. He’d get on me,
you know. And I just resented it to a
certain extent. He just chewed me
out. He told me how I needed to
straighten out and live right.
Because of his negative
experience,
this elder attempts to work with inactive members in a kind and caring
manner.
I don’t believe in going
to them and chewing them out
like that elder did me. I just try
to
be persuasive with them and try to do it in a nice way. Like I said
that one
elder really chewed me out one side and down the other.
I don’t do that because I resented it to a
certain extent.
Elders
interviewed for this study appear to model the elders who guided them
as
youth. If the elders had a positive
experience, they desire to pattern their pastoral leadership after the
positive
example. On the other hand, elders who
had negative experiences in their youth attempt to learn from the
experiences
and not repeat the same errors in their pastoral duties.
Becoming Elders
The
elders in
this study became elders in two distinct ways.
A couple of participants set their hearts “on being an overseer”
(1 Tm
3:1). When asked how he became an elder,
one participant replied:
Well, I wanted to be,
and I enjoy working with people
. . . I’ve dealt with people all my life, even on my job which I was a
supervisor
where I worked in the latter, ten, twelve years. I
worked
with the state, and I like to work
with people. I enjoy working with people
and I got along well with people. I can
talk to people. I can reason with people
and listen, and that’s important to listen to people’s problems, and I
just
felt like I wanted to be an elder so I could help people.
This elder puts his desire
to help
people into action as he works with individuals who have become
inactive. The participant recounted how he
had talked
with an inactive member the week before the interview, a process in
which he
regularly engages.
If we haven’t heard from
them in a week or so, try to
get in touch with them and see what their problem is, sometimes a phone
call
will work, but if it goes very long, we try to go see them.
Other
elders came
into a leadership position because the church requested they
become elders. One participant, for example, recalled how
the church asked him to consider the position of an elder in a men’s
business meeting.
The church was pretty
big back when I became an
elder—even bigger before I did, because shortly after the Korean War
and
everything, you know, there was lots of activity around the Valley, a
lot of
people moving in and working at the plants and a lot of stuff like that. And, they didn’t have any elders when I moved
there when we moved there in ’56 and we got some men that become very
mature
and sorta grew up in the position, I guess, where people thought we
were
qualified and we—somebody proposed that we ought to have elders and
some of the
men started looking around and said, “Well, here’s four that we think
maybe can
be elders today,” so we did. We went
through the process, announcing it to the church, and considering
elders and
some interviews—there, there were some people who wanted to talk with
us about,
various ones of us about questions that they had and stuff like that.
Other elders reported that
the church
asked them to become elders when the church’s current elders began to
increase
in age. One elder, who also serves as
the congregation’s preacher, reported:
I was approached by the
elders . . . after I had been
there probably—I’m going to say seven or eight years—I had been
preaching there
at that time. It might have been a
little bit more than that. And, they
talked to me about whether I would also serve as an elder in the
congregation. I had some reservations
about it, because, you know, preacher/elder combination is not always
the
best. You know, sometimes it can lead to
some problems, but I felt like that I needed to do it for the benefit
of the
congregation . . . The elder who has died in the meantime was beginning
to get
in somewhat poor health, and we had concerns about the fact that he was
not
really capable in providing the sort of direction, so that’s basically
how I
did [become an elder].
The
student detected only small differences in how elders dealt with
inactive
members based upon how they became elders.
The elders who desired to become elders were slightly more
likely to
characterize working with inactive Christians as a joy than were elders
asked
to serve by the congregation. One
participant who desired the position long before he became an elder
said the
following when queried about his feelings when working with inactive
members,
“Oh, I feel good within my heart.” The
elders who were asked by the congregation to serve did not speak of the
work in
terms of joy but of obligation. One
said:
I think that’s what one
of the major roles of an elder
is, to be concerned about inactive Christians . . . I think that if
that’s part
of the flock, then, you know, then you’ve got responsibility to do the
best you
can, whether it be preaching to them, calling them, sending them cards,
not
forgetting them and letting them know that they’re not forgotten.
The
student
expected more of a differentiation. As
he looked through interview transcripts, he anticipated seeing elders
who
desired the office to speak only in terms of joy and elders who were
asked to
serve to speak only in terms of responsibility.
While no participant asked by the church to serve as an elder
spoke of
working with inactive Christians as a joy, the elders who desired to
serve did
speak of the work as a responsibility as well as a joy.
The full context of the above quote where the
elder reported feeling good in working with inactive Christians is as
follows:
“Oh, I feel good within my heart, because I’ve fulfilled my obligation
from my
standpoint.”
These
data may
illustrate one of two points. The data
indicate a slight difference in the attitudes portrayed by elders
working with
inactive Christians depending upon whether the elder sought the
position or
whether the elder was asked to take the position. However,
these
data may illustrate simply
that all elders in this study are cognizant of the responsibilities
inherent in
their task, a responsibility the candidate demonstrated in Chapter II.
The
researcher discussed with the elders he interviewed details of the
congregation
where they serve so that he might ascertain the extent to which the
problem of
inactive Christians had permeated the congregations being studied.
Several
themes emerged from the data.
Activity in the
Congregation
The
elders had a
uniform concern that the members in the churches they serve are not as
motivated in their service to Christ as the elders would like. One elderly gentlemen reflected over his
years as a preacher and elder and commented:
We’ve got a full-time
preacher. But, we haven’t grown
numerically—financially
side of it we’ve grown—we’re supporting a preacher all right. But, I’d rather see it the other way and grow
numerically . . . . Well, it’s getting bad right now.
Right now it’s getting bad. People
are not attending like they
should. Like I said, there were only fifty
there yesterday morning, and I’d say a year or two ago, we’d had
seventy. We’re losing our young people. We’re losing them.
Another, who has served as
an elder
for a number of years, said:
How active is the
typical member? Well, if a good number of
them could get out
of bed or out of the nursing homes, they might be pretty active. I don’t know.
We’ve—I would like to see them a lot more active.
We do have a lot of old people that just
aren’t physically up to it, and in this day and time, the young people,
both
the husband wife works almost exclusively, what younger couples we’ve
got, and
they are limited with time and I don’t like those kinds of situations,
but
again, with them being almost forced into working now with the economy
the way
it is, I don’t know what we can do about it.
I would like to see a lot more active people, but our people are
basically older and they just can’t participate in a lot of things that
I would
like to see going on, ‘cause they can’t get out at night and stuff like
that
and can’t do a lot of walking, a lot of them, so, and the younger
people are
bogged down with working, working overtime and one thing or another, so
in my
opinion, they’re not as active as I would like to see them, yet I think
there
are reasons for that, some things that are holding them back some. And again, we’ve got some that pretty, a few
that are pretty undependable sometimes with attendance and stuff like
that is
concerned.
Although
the elders recognize the situation in their congregations might be far
from
what God would desire, they feel helpless to institute change. The one who mentioned the recent hiring of a
full-time minister had sought tirelessly to find just the right man to
work
with the congregation. He believes they
have the right man, but the situation has not improved.
The other elder recognizes the factors
weighing down activity in his congregation are out of his control,
namely, the
age of many members and economic circumstances that require members to
work
more at their places of employment than at the church.
Dealing with Inactive
Christians
When
asked how
they dealt with inactive members, the elders responded in two distinct
ways. Three elders, who serve the same
congregation, have a method for watching for inactivity.
One of the three, the first interviewed by
the researcher, described the method.
Well, as of today,
there’s mainly one way that we deal
with anybody in that category, even the slacker. We
have
three elders, and we each have a list
of names, and if somebody doesn’t attend in, I mean it’s really up to
the
elder, but we say like try to make it a week.
If somebody misses all three services in the week, then we put
forth
some kinda effort to contact them—whether it be phone, card, visit, and
see if
we can, you know, generate interest.
One of the elders
developed the
system, and the researcher asked him why he felt such a procedure was
necessary. He answered:
Well, there was some
folks that we knew were not
showing up very often. So, we wanted
some type of plan where the elders would, uh, well, I don’t know how
much they
[the other two elders] told ya, but, you know, we divided the
congregation into
three groups and each one of us is responsible for a third of the
congregation. Uh, we felt rather than the
whole group
trying to be responsible for everybody that it was simpler for one man
to kinda
watch out for these others.
These three elders
recognized a need
to oversee the needs of the congregation, and they seek diligently to
do so.
The
other elders in the study did not report any systematic method in
keeping watch
“over all the flock of which the Holy Spirit” had made them overseers
(Acts
20:28). However, all but two other
participants had no difficulty in naming individuals who had become
inactive
and discussing the efforts he had made to reclaim them.
As explained previously, the two elders who
did have trouble naming inactive Christians serve a congregation with a
lower
number of inactive members than the other congregations examined in the
study. One elder said:
Well, right now I’m
having it with two—a man and his
wife. They promise and they promise and
they promise, “I’m coming. I’m
coming. I’m coming.” But
they
just don’t come. So, I’ve spent more
time with him and his
wife than any other in trying to convert them, because he had all the
potential
in the world to be really a go-getter so far as contacting people
that’s not
members of the church. He was just a
bubbly enthusiastic type fella, and he just got along great with
everybody, but
I really don’t know what his problem is.
The
elders in this study approach inactive Christians from two
perspectives,
therefore. One group makes systematic
efforts to keep track of members who are moving closer and closer to
inactivity. Others make no systematic
efforts, but they are neither less concerned nor less involved in those
who
fall away. The size of the congregations
the elders studied serve likely caused this finding.
Only one congregation averages above
sixty-five on Sunday morning. Had the
student
interviewed elders from larger congregations he suspects more
participants
would have reported systematic efforts to keep track of active and
inactive
members. The size of the congregations
these elders serve allows the elders to know quite quickly on Sundays
which
members are present and which are missing.
Thoughts of Inactive Christians
The
elders under
consideration unanimously viewed inactive members with great concern,
but some
struggled with terminology. When asked
what he thought of when he heard the phrase “inactive Christian,” one
gentleman
replied:
I didn’t think of it
necessarily as somebody who
wasn’t coming to church, but people who were attending who weren’t
doing
anything. That’s what I think of an
“inactive Christian.” ‘Cause actually I
don’t consider one who isn’t coming a Christian really.
But they’re members.
When the candidate asked
another
elder about that statement, he got the heart of the matter. He said, “Well, I think they’re
Christians. I think they’re not faithful
Christians, they’ve been Christians at least.
I think they’re not right with God.
They’re not doing what they ought to be doing.”
In a very real sense, what terminology the
elders or the researcher place upon one who is “not right with God”
does not
matter. What matters is the state of his
or her soul.
Another
elder had difficulty grasping the terminology used in the study. When asked how many inactive members the
congregation he serves currently has, he replied, “How many inactive
members? Okay, you’ve got, you’ve got a
good question,
because how do you define ‘inactive’?”
The candidate promised to provide a definition but only after
the elder
did so first. He gave a definition quite
close to the one used in this study when he said:
One definition would be
a person who has been a member
and you haven’t seen ‘em for years.
Another person that I would consider inactive is a person who
shows up
once a month. Now, there may be another
term for that person, but to me, if you only show up once a month
you’re almost
inactive.
These
elders’ responses may point to the need for some standardized
definition of
“inactive Christian” across the churches of Christ.
Because congregations of the churches of
Christ are autonomous, no council or synod can provide a definition all
congregations must follow. However,
several writers and publications have influence across multiple
congregations. Perhaps if these writers
or publications provided a definition, congregations across the
brotherhood
would adopt the same definition.
Yet,
the student has already argued that terminology is not terribly crucial. Whether elders call one an “inactive
Christian” or “inactive member” or “erring Christian” or anything else
does not
matter as long as they engage in efforts to reclaim that individual.
Most Recent Encounter with Inactive
Christians
The
elders were
asked to describe their most recent interaction with a member of the
congregation they serve who had become inactive. Every
elder
discussed the frustration he felt
in talking with the wayward member. As
he began to cry, one elder said this about his last encounter with an
inactive
member:
Oh, I feel good within
my heart, because I’ve
fulfilled my obligation from my standpoint, and . . . but, having hopes
that
she’s going to be there and she’s going to start coming to worship the
Lord. But then when she didn’t, I kinda
get disappointed again. What did I do
wrong, maybe? I feel—I’m a person who
takes a lot to heart when I know people know to do good and don’t. It bothers me. And
I
guess if it didn’t, then I wouldn’t be
in the right frame of mind.
The
elders in this study realized they needed to work with members who have
lost
interest in the church, and they desired to help restore such members. However, they easily became discouraged when
they visited with inactive members and those Christians do not return
to the
active service of the church.
Role of Elders in Working with
Inactive Christians
The
elders in
this study were quite cognizant of the responsibility of elders to work
with
wayward members. One participant said:
It’s a terrific
responsibility. It looks to me that
there’s no glory in being an elder. It’s
just a terrific responsibility. And I
don’t think a person could really know what it is until they are an
elder. It is a terrific responsibility. We’ll be held responsible as to how we’ve
handled that position.
Other participants echoed
his
sentiments as they spoke specifically about working with inactive
members. One specifically said:
An elder has a
responsibility for every single member
of the congregation—that’s what elders are supposed to be doing to
oversee and
watching out for the welfare of the congregation, and obviously if a
person is
no longer faithful, coming to church, isn’t participating in the
worship and so
forth, that person is putting his soul or her soul in jeopardy and they
are
lost in that situation, and that’s the way I look at it.
So, I certainly believe that there’s a great
obligation there as far as an elder. An
elder ought to have a lot of interest in every member, you know, but
certainly
toward those who are inactive.
The
elders in this study did not wish to wash their hands of inactive
members or to
pass the responsibility off to the preacher or other members. They realized that as shepherds of the flock
they needed to take an active role in reaching those who wandered into
inactive
service.
To
help the elders reflect on the meaning of their experiences with
inactive
Christians, the researcher asked them what they had learned from
working with
inactive Christians and what they would like to change about the way
they had
worked with inactive Christians in the past.
The candidate did not receive nearly as much data at this point
as he
did at the other points in the interviews.
However, data received allow the researcher to draw a few
conclusions.
Learning from Working with Inactive
Christians
The
elders have
gained two important insights in working with former members. They have learned that the quicker they act
when a member becomes inactive, the greater likelihood exists for
bringing the
member back to the congregation, a finding confirmed in the literature
review
of Chapter II. One elder said, “I guess
probably the sooner that you see that they’re not a part of the
assembly and
you approach them, the better off it’s going to be.”
The elders have also learned that what may
reach one inactive member may not reach another. One
participant
added his thought:
I always, as far as I’m
personally concerned, I always
feel like there are certain avenues and things you can go to with
certain
individuals that you can’t go with others.
And, you need to be careful. I
myself have always tried to make it a practice to try to figure out
just how I,
in advance, just how I need to approach and deal with them.
Changes They Would Make
The
elders made
three different responses when asked what they would like to change
about their
dealings with inactive Christians in the past.
One elder lamented his lack of time to help individuals return
to the
active service of the church:
There’s not really
anything I would like to change . .
. The only thing I’d like to do, personally, is just to be able to do
more of
it. Um, I mean, I’d like to be able to
take, if I had every spare moment, but it’s a problem of finding spare
moments,
or you know, how do you allocate your time?
Another elder wished he
could answer
the question fully so that he could work more effectively in the
future—“If I
knew that answer, then I would work on that more. I
guess
I really don’t know the answer to
that.” Another elder regretted that at
times he waited too long before contacting wayward members.
Probably one of the
things that I regret at times in
dealing with people that were in the process of drifting away is maybe
not
moving quickly enough because sometimes, you know, we kinda tend to
hold back
thinking, “Well things may turn around and they’ll get things
straightened out,
you know, and if I say anything to them, it may push them the other
direction.” But I’m afraid sometimes we
let people go,
slip too far away before we get serious about it, before we take action
toward
. . . If they get to a certain point sometimes, they’ve lost interest.
These
answers have the common theme of the elder’s concern for their inactive
members. An elder would not lament that
he did not have enough time to work with inactive members unless he
realized he
needed to work with those members. A
participant would not wish to know what he could do differently unless
he had
genuine concern for those drifting away.
An elder would not regret he had not moved quickly enough in the
past
unless he realized individuals’ souls were in jeopardy.
This
chapter has provided data gleaned from the interviews conducted for
this
study. The interviews asked the
participants to place their story in their total life context, their
present
experiences and what they hoped would be different in the future. The next chapter will summarize the
dissertation, draw conclusions from the data, and propose future
research.
1. All names of individuals, congregations, and communities have been changed to preserve the confidentiality of the study’s participants. Additional details may also be changed to mask the participants’ identities.
2. Seidman, 11.
3. Ibid., 12.
4. Ibid.
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